Love life and life skills – hmm, do they really go together. Oh Yes!
Even your love life could be dramatically improved by honing a few of your life skills.
When it comes to love, many believe in fate. One day you’ll be struck by a bolt of “whatever”, turn around and magically meet the eyes of your future partner across the room – the word bXXXXs springs to mind but hey, each to their own.
To my mind, finding a partner in life is a little more practical than that. It’s about matching your character, values, care instructions and expectations with those of another. If you can do this, then, and only then, I’ll give that there’s plenty of magic involved – and a heck of a lot of effort that’s required to maintain the magic.
If you feel like you’re floundering a bit in this area. Can’t seem to get a relationship off the ground. Feel your marriage or relationship is in need of a spark. Or simply wonder where the heck the partner you started out with has disappeared to. It may be time to look at your love life skills.
We’re NOT talking “rules” here either. The:
- “should I ring him/her now or later or at all?”
- “should I be available of unavailable?”
- “Should we go for a meal or to the footie?”
- “Do I have to have sex tonight or not?”
The answers to these questions are often so irritatingly elusive because every individual and every couple is different.
If you’re single and really want to improve your love life, you need to first look inwardly at yourself, your life and life skills as a whole. Give yourself a bit of a shake up and an overhaul.
If you’re already in a relationship, you need to do the same but, it needs to be a team effort with both sides recognising the needs of the other and accommodating through compromise.
To give your love life a boost, start on a program for improving your love life by improving your love life skills. You’re going to want to be looking at:
- Self-Confidence and Esteem
- Courage, Positive Thinking & CANDo Attitude
- Honesty, Respect, Appreciation & Admiration
- Kindness & Compassion
- Home Life Skills
- Teamwork and Cooperation
- Healthy Body Image and your own Style.
- Communication Skills
No matter whether you’re male or female, we all need companionship in our lives. That may be just as friends or acquaintances, but often takes the form of a girl/boyfriend or a wife/husband/lover/partner.
By becoming more conscious of the existence of these life skills and looking at ways you can improve any of them, you’ll be working towards improving your love life. Look at the list above and then be honest with yourself. Are there any areas you could do with some improvement? With a few tweaks you could work out why you have no love life or figure out how to improve a relationship that’s not quite all there. Either way, you’ll be on the road to a better love life.
What are you waiting for. You CANDo it and you’ll be amazed at the results.